4 Letters for Ruby

Dear Ruby,
Please take care of the key for me. You know how my darling forgot keys. Also give her a good hug and snuggle for me. Tell her I love her too.Your Master.

Received 12:22:13………………………………………………………………………..

Dear Ruby,
Remember to turn on the air-corn for my darling tonight, she scared of hot. And also I’m waiting to fly at the depature gate.

Received 14:27:04………………………………………………………………………..

Ruby,
Boarding now. Hope this place I’m going is better than my last place. Will try to call and sms my beloved one. Bye Ruby.

Received 14:52:27…………………………………………………………………………

Hey Ruby,
Tell my darling, I am safe in Cambodia. Please ask her not to worry. Love, your master.

Received 17:44:23………………………………………………………………………….

Once someone asked this question…
“Why do you want to get married?”

The one surpose to answer the question…
“…”

There are many reasons why a man and a women wanted to get married. However, the complication of getting married and the risk one have to take after the wedding is far too unpredictable. No one can promise it was the right one, the right decision and most important of all…one will be happy ever after.

Sadly, the world reminded us the opposite.  If one is not optimistic or naive, it does required extra ordinary courage to be married and continue to work on the marriage.

The first year of marriage…the newly wed has equal of sweet times and challenges to overcome together. Just imagine how the men from Mars can live well with a women from Venus. It does certainly required lots of patient and communication, carefully not to drive the fragile relationship to the wall. We must acknowledge that too many people jump-off the ship right after the ship is set to sail.

So, the effort to bring the relationship a step further, increasing the quota of forgiveness and love to a new height is the only way out.

Someone once ask this question…
“What will you do if he will never change?”

The one surpose to answer…
“Be patient and be nice. Wait for him, just like how he waited for you.”

The answer above is true unless one is prepared to change their spouse. But, how many more of this to go?

So, be nice to your spouse because he/she is your selected one.  Remember to do anything which will bring joy and comfort to his/her heart. It will surely increase your love capacity too because this is a two way thing.

And, this is Ruby! ^_~

Because you love me

I am going around making a few splash of ink…yet the colour just fade away. I stop adding the blending liquid but dry splash of paint hoping to bring out the contrast of life.

Still, everything is pastel as this is always the way I am. Yet, the feeling is extreme. You can surely find it in between of the light and shadow.

I am who I am because you love me…

Have you listen to her breath? (literally)

JP again,

I am still not over it yet. 3 weeks into marriage. Everything is still looking, smelling and feeling NEW. I even get this little warm feeling of How Lucky / Blessed / Fortunate I am to be able to LISTEN to my wife sleep and breath. haha, weird but it’s actually very satisfying.

Love can be so blindingly beautiful, it can make the dullest sky blue, skunk smelling like perfume and even death being alive (ok, a bit exaggerated). So, darling promise me to continue breathing yah. Take a deep breathe. breath out 4 time, then breath in 4 time. hmm hmm hmm hmm this is like taking a cue in BB classes.

Sleep tight darling… breath breath breathe breathe

JP still in that uncomfortable position at the leg of the bed

This is JP, reporting in

Hello World,

Thanks to my dearest, I can now post on a BLOG, being such a lucky fella, having the wife doing all the setup and for me just to simply type and post. I’ll even get all the photos touch up by her before posting surely not.

For most of the reader out that who don’t know me. This will be a little corner about myself, my believe, my work, my challenges and my other blah blah blah.

Just that how grateful I am to have married such a wonderful lady (lady meau), most importantly married to someone who Love GOD and love me as well. This will be my first post of many to come, I will and can be quite personal, please go easy on me, as this is just another Chapter in my life.

This is JP, reporting in… from my comfortable home computer.

GOD bless you all

Photo added by imeau

imeau: Let us welcome my Very Important Person as the guest writer to this blog!
Yeaha!!! Be nice yeah?

The big day V | Finale

From the time I get into the bridal car…the journey to the ceremony, I start to get a little nervous. I know I am late (just like what everyone told me), the bride always late. I don’t do it intentionally, but JP definitely get so worried if anything happened to me. He’s relief the moment he heard the “hon hon” of the car upon my arrival.

The moment of walking in is great. That is the moment…I can see faces, all my relatives and close friend cheering for me…

• those who we love and respect, always been a true inspiration for JP & I
  
• those who travel from far, even when the flight got cancel but take the hassle to transit in 3 different airport to be in my wedding
• those who extent their helping hand during the preparation and actual day making the event a memorable one
• those who bless us and always pray for us, and wanted to be there for us and witness this special day
• those who we hardly in touch but always supporting and wishing the best for us
• those who cancel and change their traveling schedule to be there with us
• those who travel from outstation (Penang, Sabah, Johor, Melaka, Singapore) the night before and early in the morning to witness the celebration
  
• those who love us, close to us and wanted to share this joyous day with us
• those who took great effort looking “lavender or green” to match the theme color
• those who can’t make it, but call and leave us the best wishes
• also those I suppose to invite but didn’t get to reach on time…my heart is praying that they would forgive me, and happy for me.

All these faces…pops up in a split second…truly bring smile to my face. I don’t know how I look walking down the aisle, but I am truly smiling because of all of you.

I heard…many is glad we finally tie the knot, after many years
I heard…many is touch and shed their tears
I heard…many promise themselves to walk down the aisle with their love one
I heard…the wine is too good, some got drunk drinking with a straw
I heard…I look sweet and beautiful in my wedding dress
I heard…all the wonderful greeting from people we love
I heard…the songs is sweet to the ears…”I am yours” sang by a lady

and

I saw…the sun is shining bright
I saw…the place is very romantic and cozy
I saw…the flower is fresh with sweet fragrant
I saw…the food is fine and the dessert is fabulous
I saw…many was there in lavender, green, cream and white
I saw…wedding cake is too lovely to be eaten (I know…I wish I can bring it home)
I saw…peoples smiling and sweating (a little hot?)
I saw…peoples entertaining themselves with all kind of poses and jokes
I saw…children love the fish (not the food, but the live one swimming in the pond)

and…many more… I thank you! Truly…

Thank you…for being part of our lives and our celebration.

A special custom make to our face Chinese dolls fly all the way back from Beijing by Huimin & Rodger. We love it!!! Thank you so much! *Bear Hug*
~Photo taken by Big Boy Oven~

~Photo taken by Sharon Anne Tan~

~Photo taken by Sharon Anne Tan~

~Photo taken by Sharon Anne Tan~

Here are some extra coverage and writting of the wedding day:
The lovely wedding cake maker : Big Boys Oven
The wonderful wedding coordinator : Kenny Mah
The beautiful body balance instructors: Sharon & Purdey
The charming photographer cum body combat instructor: Jon Low & The photos

Remark: I am yet to get my actual day photo from my wedding photographer. Will put them in the gallery once I received it. Next…part and parcel of the hen’s night and bachelor night, and also the after event story…something even more drama….you won’t believe what actually happened after the wedding! Seriously…heheheh ^_~