2 Wrongs 1 Right

Have you come across people or situation that make you so angry and you wonder why you need to give in? Yet, the key isn’t about giving in but making wrong right.

Yet, most of the time…when anger, bitterness, resentment kick in…all we want is to run away, avoid the responsibility or even worst if we revenge. If you would spend a little time to think about it, especially when you decided to make a decision against the natural way you would treat others, that usually the wrong decision.

1st – against your heart. You will not be happy and most likely regretted at the end of the day and wish you could do it differently. It is much easy to forgive than to hold grudge against someone (especially one that you love). Is simply painful!

2nd – you hurt them too. Is that really what you want? You hurt someone when someone hurt you? It sounds like the circle will continue. When shall this end then? To always watching your back and preparing for war all year long is a very tedious job to be in…don’t you agree?

3th – making things complicated. Probably life hasn’t been exciting enough and we just need to add some colors to it. It is a selfish act because we are involving those around us to be in the miserable situation.

I have someone, I can’t forgive for years. The wound is too deep for me to forgive. It need more than time to heal. In fact, I don’t think time can do any good. Most likely, I became numb. Yet, I know it clearly at the back of my head, I will need to…eventually, to do what is right. What someone fails to do, it’s their burden and guilt to bare. I don’t have to create another guilt and put it on my own shoulder, which eventually…doesn’t make me feel any good.

So, it is a big decision to be merciful, give and love even when is hurting. I believe, love can turn things right, wash away all the pain, renewed life. Even if it doesn’t, God know I done my part, and I am blameless to self. That will be enough.

The key…it doesn’t take 2 wrongs to get 1 right.

Her Wrong doing + My Wrong doing = More Wrong doing
Her Wrong doing + My Right doing = Reconciliation (maybe…at least I try)

Do you get my point? Hope you have the courage to do it right. Pray for me too eh? Knocking on my head real hard…ai, still hurt *_*

PS: Still busy with things…so much to do…

Light up your life!

My recent design inspired by Chuck Anderson (NOPATTERN). I am never a colorful person, yet when I come across Chuck Anderson design…I actually find it breathtaking!

Now, I am working on a series of artwork. So, decided to use the latest LED ligths with startlight as the background to create an aurora scene. Painting rainbow color manually with color palette is a real challenge. It really take some effort off me to get this.

Take a look and let me know if you like it. ^_~

Let it be lavender & green

I am planning an events recently. Here’s some idea I am working on. Do ignore the mess, but focus on the simple line and colors.

Thinking to go along with lavender and green colour to create a garden feel. From design point of view, it was a crash combination. So, the challenge here… make it nice!

Do let me know if you have any suggestion for me. Cheers ^_~

fake vs real

New artwork, combination of nature, flowers, insects and lights.

Can you guess which is real, which is fake?

This design also used as my cell bookmark and poster. If you like to have one…let me know yeah! ^_~